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After 43 years in my chosen profession, I remain excited, alive, and learning! From an active Twitter Account to blogging, from teaching Constitutional Law to Pre-AP English, from a national winner...
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Character: The Silent Students and Faculty Members

  • Character is sometimes defined by silence as well as chatter. But often, chatter is more highly prized. I wonder what more we could do if we paused in silence to recognize the quiet ones among us?
  • For the silent ones, I remind you that loud and continuous talking is not the sign of intelligence. And, for the gregarious ones, silence is not the sign of untalented. Quiet doesn't mean: weak, easy, stupid, deep, sneaky, or aloof; noise doesn't mean: strong, dominant, brilliant, shallow, honest, or engaged. In a recent article, "10 Ways To 'Deal With' Quiet People", I was reminded by the author that I should "never assume that quiet is weak and loud is strong." Also, never assume that silence is consent.
  • As we return to our "flipped classrooms" and our "flipped faculty meetings", we need to explore how the silent are engaged and process. We should consider how we as leaders and teachers can assist the silent by:
  • * giving prep time for listening
  • *giving space for thinking
  • *giving permission to be silent without commenting on the silence
  • *giving one-on-one time
  • *giving quiet environments to extend their thinking
  • *giving alone time and not always linking everyone to a group or team for every task
  • Character is built be listening and speaking. Let's honor all among us!
  • Happy Listening and Speaking!