Today, my good readers, I have a challenge to issue to you:
For a tremendous number of children, however, Poohs hunny jars are empty.
Switch your thinking for a moment.
We know facts about the correlation between attitude and altitude: positive thoughts lead to positive results. Thats why motivational sites like BucketFillers101.com exist, why John Maxwells books have sold a quindecillion copies (thats an estimation, literally 1048 but in laymans terms a heckuva lot), and why Boston Red Sox fans held on for 86 years until that elusive World Series championship finally did arrive. We agree that we must think positively, create positive images, and act in a positive wayso where did we learn this? From those caring, doting, attentive, supportive adults, thats where.
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And then there are our hunny-free children. Downtrodden, burdened, exhausted, overwhelmed, disenfranchised, lonely, confused, battered, scared, anxious, depressedthey trudge uncertainly towards the door. We watch them walk. We see the scars in their expressions. The worry shrouds them like a morning fog. Our hearts ache, our empathy is activated, and our concern heightens. If only, we tend to think. If only there were something I could do. Poor thing. We watch them pass without making eye contact, hardly even breathing. Then we see them walk by a mysterious someone
and after a similarly mysterious interaction, those same hunny-free children crack a smile. Eyes glint. Shoulders de-hunch. Steps become more sprightly. Britches get yanked back up above the keister. Laughter fills the air. What just 7 seconds ago appeared broken and destined for disaster now shows promise, life, and expression.
What just happened?
A caring, dedicated adult just maximized the use of 7 seconds, thats what.
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During those 7 seconds, that caring, dedicated, and not-really-so-mysterious someone could have said something like this: Good morning, Jacoby! You look like youre ready for school today. Did you get a new haircut? So handsome -- look out world, here comes the pride of Lion-town, Jacoby! Have a good day today, young man.
How long is 7 seconds? Have you ever watched a pretty fast baseball player hit a double? It takes about 7 seconds to run from home to second base. 7 seconds might be but a blip to you (its roughly 0.008% of a 24-hour day), but it could last a lifetime in the experience of a child. Its a small investment on our part to fill a bucket, to infuse some positive energy, to generate some forward momentum, and to set in motion events that change lives. And since it doesnt take too long and it isnt terribly complicated to implement, a 7 second investment is a relatively easy way to make a humongous difference in the world of a child, a family, a group, a class, or an entire school.
You can make it happen! Just
Be there. A prerequisite to dedicating 7 seconds to this cause is to be where the children are. Good places might include the cafeteria, the bus line, the front entryway, the main hallways, the playground, the library, the corner crosswalkanywhere you might find children, especially those that you know are in need of some heavy-duty bolstering.
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Use compliments. Compliment anything and everything, using specific language. This coming Monday, pick the most homely looking little girl in your school and tell her shes got the most beautiful smile this morning. Then, for a week, call her Beautiful every time you see her. Watch her beam and sparkle before Fridays lunch.
Commit to it. Brother, can you spare 7 seconds? Chances are you can. Are you willing to? Dedicate yourself to making a positive difference every day. Commit to lighting a child up every morning. Devote the energy to being a beacon in a childs life. Set aside 7 seconds and watch it work.
It only takes 7 seconds to make a childs day.
What might be the implications of not using those 7 seconds for that purpose?
Always strive to be a better you,
Pete!
Article by Pete Hall
Education World®
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01/03/2011
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