Connect With
Shy Students

The more successful you are in developing a trusting relationship with a shy student, the more likely it is that he or she will develop the confidence to reach out to peers. Try to find time to do some activities that the child particularly enjoys, perhaps encouraging her to teach you a game or skill that she does well. If the shy child is a boy, respond to him in a warm and nurturing manner and make sure to liberally praise his accomplishments.

Shy children might need practice speaking with individuals on a one-to-one basis. Even a few conversations with her each week can improve her skill and comfort level in interacting with others. Ask the shy child about his interests or activities and use those as a basis for your conversations.

Source: Ken Shore: The Classroom Problem Solver

09/14/2010