Reclaiming Play: Helping Children Learn and Thrive in School

By Nancy Carlsson-Paige www.nancycarlssonpaige.com
Author of Taking Back Childhood

Child development theorists, researchers, and educators have long known that play is one of children’s most valuable resources, vital to their social, emotional, and cognitive growth. Through play children make sense of the world around them and work through new experiences, ideas, and feelings.  But in recent years, a host of social forces and trends — the influence of media, commercialism, fast-paced family life, academic pressures in schools — have been eroding healthy play, robbing children of this valuable resource for optimal growth and learning.     

Children today are playing less at home, outdoors, and at school. According to a national Kaiser Family Foundation survey, children in the two- to seven-year-old age group now average about three hours per day in front of screens — time they don’t spend in active, child-centered play (Rideout, et al., 2003). More parents today work, and work longer and harder than they did a generation ago, and without a system of quality national child care and after school care, many rely on screens or structured activities to occupy their kids.

In our nation’s schools, teachers have had to cut recess and open-ended play in order to meet pressures in a climate of test-driven curriculum. The focus on academic skills and scripted teaching, alarmingly, has pushed down even to preschools and kindergartens where play experiences are disappearing.
                       
LEARNING THROUGH PLAY

Once children understand the concept of numbers, the symbols such as the number symbol ‘5’ have real meaning because children have constructed this knowledge for them­selves, or as Piaget might say, they have ‘invented’ it.  When children construct their ideas through play and hands-on activities that make sense to them, their knowledge builds in a hand-over-hand way that is solid and unshakable. They build a foundation of meaning through play that provides the basis for understanding concepts in language, literacy, math, science, and the arts.             

READY TO LEARN

Though we may barely notice it, this is ideally what children are always doing in play. They take pieces of experience and transform them into something new, re-ordering things in terms that make sense to them and gaining mastery over the challenges they’ve encountered. As they create their own scenarios, children come to understand and integrate what they’ve experienced in life — the birth of a sibling, an argument overheard between parents, a scary scene viewed in a movie. In this way, play serves children’s learning even more deeply than we sometimes recognize because it’s through the process of play that children continually return to emotional and mental balance and the readiness to learn.                                                                                   

SOCIAL AND EMOTIONAL LEARNING THROUGH PLAY

The social and emotional skills considered vital for success in school begin to build in the early years and to a large extent, they develop through play. As children play, they also learn to control their impulses. They have to stay within the boundaries of the roles they create in their imaginary situations and in so doing, they develop more self-regulatory social behavior (Vygotsky, 1933, 1978).                                                                                                         
When children play together, conflicts are commonplace because young kids tend to see things from their own perspective and don’t easily understand how their actions affect others. But today, conflicts among children are increasing as they try out the models of aggression and violence they’ve absorbed from the media and have diminishing opportunities to develop social skills through spontaneous play with other children. Because of this, it is more important than ever that we facilitate children’s conflicts in ways that help them learn social and emotional skills.
                                                                
When we send children to time-out, we aren’t giving them any new ideas or skills for building positive relationships. Especially today, as we see so many children in great need of learning social and emotional skills, we can do a lot to foster this critical learning by intervening in ways that encourage skill building. And as research now tells us, we’ll not only be helping children become more socially competent, we’ll be giving them tools that will increase their likelihood of success in school. A definitive meta-analysis of more than one hundred studies showed that students who had social and emotional learning not only got along better with others, but also learned more effectively and had higher grades and achievement test scores (Weissberg, et al., 2007).   
      
This is a time when societal influences are robbing children of healthy play, one of the most important vehicles they have for optimal development and learning. We need to step in — with the awareness and skills that is uniquely ours as parents and educators — to reclaim this powerful resource for children. Taking active steps to encourage imaginative and beneficial play that truly serves children’s needs will not only reclaim play for them, but also give children the best foundation possible for success in school and in their lives both now and in years to come.

04/01/2008